Leave openings in your togetherness
so that the wind of heaven dances between you
Kahlil Gibran
It is sometimes said: 'you fall in love with your challenge and you are married to your allergy (Daniel Ofman)'. Or how we choose a partner to feel 'whole' again. In other words we unconsciously choose a partner to heal our wounds. During a stress situation this quickly turns out to be a challenge because we fall into ancient patterns often a survival strategy to deal with what happened at the time. However, we are not always aware of this. gaining insight into each other's reactions and the underlying stories ensures mutual understanding so that you can look at your partner with different eyes.
Relation therapy can bring you insight in:
- your own survival strategy
- the survival strategy of your partner
- the trigges in your relationship
- how your partner really is
- how it can be
For a free intake, please call Carla 0479 29 79 29 or send a mail to coaching@thekeyoflife.be
I never feel more given to
than when you take from me –
when you understand the joy I feel
giving to you.
And you know my giving isn’t done
to put you in my debt,
but because I want to live the love
I feel for you.
To receive with grace
may be the greatest giving.
There’s no way I can separate
the two.
When you give to me,
I give you my receiving.
When you take from me, I feel so
given to.
‘Given to’
Ruth Bebermeyer